Although I can't really relate, I kind of understand.
I haven't had anything to do with hy scoliosis yet. No surgury, no back brace. And I'm sure if I did have one in high school, I probably wouldn't have done everything I've done. I now have teeth braces, which I'm 19 and I know it's slightly older than the normal age a person has braces, but I know I would have been terribly more shy and less active. Nonetheless, my classmates voted me "Most Shy" for the senior poll, which I found rediculous. I was quiet, but certainly not shy. What shy person is highly active in Drama Club, orchestra, and Speech?
Anyways, I'm well on my way preparing for an acting career, despite my teeth braces. And I'm considering doing something about my scoliosis. But had I done anything about both these things when I was younger, I probably wouldn't be where am I now. So, I believe, that it's fine to blame scoliosis. Perhaps not 100 percent, but yeah, sure.
Well, that was kinda opposite your situation...or something...but I still get it.
~Alysia
rebeccamartint <rebeccamartint@...
In many ways I was lucky with the scoliosis. I'm 44 years old, and
was first diagnosed with a 28 degree thoracolumbar curvature when I
was around 12. It progressed to 38, and I wore the Milwaukee brace
for all my highschool years.
My back is o.k at this point, cross fingers, although it is subject
to stress so I have to be careful of it. In the respect that I
haven't had physical pain like a lot of the people I see on this
board and others I have been fortunate. However, in other respects
my life has not been all it could be. I'm not sure if I can blame
the scoliosis for this, however.
In addition to having the scoliosis, I've always been a person who
is in ways perceived as different from others. In highschool when I
wore the brace I became very shy, almost mute. I feel I missed a
lot of stuff becuase I didn't date much, although I did participate
in some of the other teen "hobbies" such as alcohol and pot. But I
really never regained the level of academic achievement that I had
shown potential for earlier. I was distracted, mostly living in a
fantasy world that my life was one way when it was actually another,
and became a hypochondriac. This was not a normal teen pursuit.
At any rate, I did attend college but was never really able to get a
career going for myself. My problem is not the physical appearance
as this is barely noticeable to most people. In fact, when I found
my financial situation to be suffering, I turned first to massage
then "professional escort" work. I also in these years have not
ever married. I've had a few relationships, but they haven't really
gone that well.
I'm not sure, as I've said, that this is relevant to the scoliosis,
but I'm just wondering if there's anyone else out there who can
relate to this story or am I kind of not fitting in here also?
Thanks to my entire family for standing by me and helping me sort out this computer stuff.
And most of all the person upstairs. He has helped us through many hard times as he will anyone.